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PROBABLY OVERSHARING

A weekly newsletter about dating, relationships, being single, and figuring out life in your 20s—told through personal essays, writing prompts, behind-the-scenes glimpses of my writing life, and my monthly On the Radar reports. It’s the place where I unpack the things we’re all thinking about but rarely say out loud: modern connection, the quiet loneliness of growing up, the strange joy of starting over, and the tiny victories that remind you you’re doing better than you think.

It’s casual. It’s honest. It’s run-on sentences. It’s a little bit like a diary (except instead of locking it up, I send it straight to your inbox). Some weeks, it’s heartbreak. Some weeks, it’s unsolicited dating advice. Some weeks, it’s me processing a conversation I had at 2 a.m. or spiraling about something I heard on a podcast. And every week, it’s a reminder that none of us are really going through this alone.

Probably Oversharing pairs well with a crisp glass of wine, your favorite Taylor Swift album, the notes app you swear you don’t use anymore, a freshly lit candle, and blocking your ex (again) with the confidence of a woman who knows her worth.

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